Real or Fake #18


(1) Read the story. (2) Tell the story in your own words. (3) Ask the questions.
To promote independence among their children, the Dutch have a tradition called “dropping” where kids, typically preteens, are left in the middle of the woods at night and must find their way back to camp by themselves. It is meant to be challenging, and they often stagger in at two or three in the morning.

Parents might follow but won’t guide, might leave mysterious notes, and sometimes hide, growling in the woods. “You just drop your kids into the world,” says a Dutch parent. “Of course, you make sure they don’t die, but other than that, they have to find their own way.”

If this sounds crazy to you, it is because you are not Dutch.

Vocabulary
preteen = a boy or girl who is not yet a teenager, usually between the ages of 9 and 12

stagger = to walk as if you might fall

Comprehension Questions
  1. What is this tradition called?
  2. Who do the kids have to do?
  3. What are two things parents might do?
Discussion Questions
  1. What are the pros and cons of “dropping”?
  2. Would you like to participate in this tradition as a kid? What about as a parent?
  3. Have you ever gotten lost in the woods?
  4. Do you enjoy hiking?